The power of a word. How many times a day do you use the word “should”? Consider the impact using “should” has on your perception.
Google “define: should” and you’ll get the following result:
- used to indicate obligation, duty, or correctness, typically when criticizing someone’s actions. Or when criticizing your own.
- used to indicate what is probable. Or what you’ve come to expect.
What if instead of using the word “should” as a form of self-reprimand or -exasperation, you start doing whatever it is or stop having the expectation you’re going to do it?
Remove “should” from your lexicon. The rearview mirror has a poor reflection. Don’t use that. Rather, check in with yourself throughout the day. Are you motivated to do the thing you thought was the thing to do? Why or why not?
All permanent change starts with an internal change. Focus on your internal motivation. Don’t let the word “should” demotivate you. Don’t let it steal your accountability either.
Simple truth: You do the things you want to do, when you do them. Own it. No “should haves” necessary.
